Erotic Blueprints for Pleasure

Understanding how we each experience pleasure can be transformational. In this episode of Pleasurelit with Patricia, we explore the concept of erotic blueprints, a framework that provides insights into the various ways we can access pleasure. You will be able to gain an awareness of your own desires and those of your partners, for deeper connections and more fulfilling pleasure experiences.

The idea of erotic blueprints was developed by Jaiya, who has extensive experience in sexology, Tantra, and embodiment practices. These blueprints serve as a map of arousal patterns, revealing how differently we connect with our own pleasure energy. Just as love languages help us understand how we give and receive love, erotic blueprints can be applied for erotic pleasure.

I also want to highlight here that those are just 5 primary types. If you have followed me for a while, or read my bestselling book The Pleasurelit Way, you will know that I speak of Portals to Pleasure as access points and there are many. The erotic blueprints are a starting guide.

The 5 Erotic Blueprint Types

The 5 erotic blueprints are: energetic, sensual, kinky, sexual, and shape-shifter. Each blueprint has its own access points to pleasure, as well as shadow sides that can inhibit enjoyment. Understanding these blueprints can offer significant insights into personal and shared experiences of pleasure.

1. Energetic Blueprint: This type thrives on anticipation and connection. Pleasure begins even before physical touch. Practices such as breath work and eye gazing can enhance the experience. However, energetics may feel overwhelmed if things move too quickly, requiring a slower, more attuned approach to pleasure.

2. Sensual Blueprint: Those with a sensual blueprint are deeply in tune with their five senses. They require a nurturing environment to fully immerse themselves in pleasure, as distractions can quickly turn them off. Creating a sensory-rich atmosphere, think soft fabrics, pleasing scents, and soothing sounds, can enhance the experience for them.

3. Kinky Blueprint: Kinky ones find pleasure in exploring taboo or unconventional experiences (Personally, I believe we are all kinky in one way or another). They might feel shame or guilt about their preferences and with that suppress them. This blueprint encourages open conversations about desires and boundaries, allowing partners to playfully engage in their fantasies. Communication is essential here to ensure that both partners feel safe and excited.

4. Sexual Blueprint: Direct and to the point, those with a sexual blueprint are often driven by physical touch and orgasm. They may seek immediate gratification, which can lead to misunderstandings with partners who prefer a more gradual approach. They might be seen as too direct or too much. Nakedness and watching erotica can enhance their experience. Understanding this blueprint can help partners navigate their differences in a way that honours each person’s desires.

5. Shape-shifter Blueprint: Shape-shifters embody elements of all the other blueprints. They are versatile and can adapt to different experiences, but they may struggle to identify their primary source of pleasure. Because they can adapt to their partner’s blueprints, they can quickly become people pleaser, forgetting to ask for their own needs to be met. Regularly checking in with themselves can help shape-shifters understand their evolving needs and desires.

The exploration of erotic blueprints offers a valuable insight on how pleasure is experienced differently. We can create intimate experiences that honour each other’s unique needs, preferences and dislikes. This awareness not only enhances personal pleasure but also deepens relational connections for more fulfilling and pleasurelit experiences.

I would love to hear from you:

• What has resonated from this episode?

• What is one of the take away message?

• What is your primary erotic blueprint?

• What will you implement moving forward?

• Anything else you feel called to share

With love & pleasure, Patricia

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