About Pleasurelit Patricia

Hi, I’m Pleasurelit Patricia (also known as The Pleasurelit Alchemist). A born libra in 1987. A fulltime single mother of 2 children. Originally from Germany and living in Australia permanently. Now, on this page you can read more about me, my story, my qualifications, mission and more. Grab yourself a delicious drink while you continue reading...

I have always had a deep interest in kink, finding joy in exploring, experimenting, and embracing variety. As a demisexual, I love to build an emotional connection before sexual attraction awakens. For me, pleasure, sex, play, and kink are far more fulfilling when there’s a deep bond of trust and connection. Being able to fully let go requires vulnerability and honesty with meaningful conversations. I am drawn to individuals who exhibit emotional intelligence, live a healthy, active lifestyle, exude positive energy, and who honour the Divine Feminine. I would also add Autosexuality and Sapiosexuality into this spectrum. I truely believe "spectrum" is the right word to this as it's not one a "one box fits all" - it is more fluid. As a Sapisexual, I love learning new skills and find it very attractive when someone is teaching me something new, can hold deep and meaningful conversations, is passionate and inspires and empower others. And well, Autosexualily - I am deeply in love with myself & enjoy to turn myself on!

My first kiss was with a girl, and oh my, did I enjoy the experience. I am attracted to men and women. It’s their energy and the connection we share that matters most to me. Interestingly, after my first kiss with a girl, I soon found myself in a group kiss with two boys, which sparked my curiosity in swinging. This later expanded into an exploration of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships and I will remain open to wherever this journey takes me.

At this stage of my life, l embody a very sub leaning Switch and Alpha Female energy. Different situations and people bring out varied energy dynamics in me, and I love exploring pleasure energies.

My Submissive energy: I embrace my submissive side when I feel safe enough to hand over control. This energy brings balance to my life, offering a welcome counterpoint to my naturally independent and organised personality. Letting go of control is both challenging and deeply satisfying. Within my submissive energy, I enjoy embodying the "princess," "good girl," or "bottom/bedroom sub" energies. I expect to be treated with respect in these dynamics. I am especially drawn to healthy masculinity Alpha men to surrender to, especially when they are strong, tall, fit (and wear a suit) and intelligent. Some of the kinks I enjoy within my submissive energy include sensation play, sensory deprivation, squirting, pussy fisting, public play, tantric & somatic practices, light impact, bare hand spanking, restraints & bondage, role play, edging, praise, anal, electro stimulation, primal play, ropes/Shibari, toys, and many others.

My Dominant energy: I love being worshipped and treated with the utmost respect, holding myself and those around me to high standards. I embody various energies, including the Goddess and Seductress. I love being called Goddess or Queen. Some of my kinks and fetishes within my Female Dominant energy include Goddess Worship, Body Worship (such as feet, muscles, booty, and hair), receiving massages, service subs completing acts of services for me to make my life easier, financial offerings, pleasure toy & kinky tool play, sensation play, sensory deprivation & overload, CFNM, light impact, restraints, edging, tease and denial, JOI, role plays, primal play (incl. scratching and biting), somatic and tantric practices, devotional rituals.

I have a deep love for Tantra and the power of harnessing sexual energy. As a Goddess and Sacred Alpha Feminine, I thrive in connecting and playing with a conscious, healthy masculine or feminine energy, building up sexual energy for full-body orgasmic bliss. Through deep breathing, meditation, sensual massages, and other tantric practices, channeling this energy – whether solo or partnered – feels truly divine and delicious. Pleasure Magick is also a favourite of mine.

As a Sensualist, I am passionate about all things related to sensuality, whether engaging all of my senses or limiting some to heighten others. Sensation play, combined with a touch of kink, brings me immense pleasure – such as using restraints, blindfolds, pinwheels, feathers, temperature play, electro play, or having my hair played with, and receiving massages on my feet, head, and body. I particularly enjoy impact play when it’s intertwined with sexual and sensual experiences, and only with individuals with whom I share a deep connection.

As an Experimentalist, I embrace variety and the thrill of trying new things in a safe and consensual way. This openness has led me to explore and enjoy anal play, fisting, edging, various pleasure toys and tools, squirting, role plays, teasing, and building anticipation. Through these explorations, l’ve also established a hard-limit list and always communicate my boundaries clearly.

As an Exhibitionist, I take great pleasure in showcasing my body, my pleasures, and my vibrant being for others to admire. I find joy in inspiring others, reducing shame, and promoting self-love and pleasure. l’ve enjoyed experiences such as being tied to a St. Andrew’s Cross for an impact session at a swingers’ party, tied to a pole for an electro session at a kink event, and even fisted in front of an audience, who applauded afterward and approached me with questions. I loved recording myself, sharing my Female self-pleasure and pleasure toy experiences with others through my exclusive adult content fan pages (such as OnlyFans), which now has evolved into being worshipped and fully receiving. Knowing that these moments inspire and turn others on, helping them find more pleasure in their own lives, is a huge turn-on for me. Especially when I receive financial offerings through this - I can be fully in my Goddess receiving energy.

I have a deep passion for a wide variety of pleasure tools, including 100% borosilicate glass wands for solo play, uniquely shaped and textured premium silicone dildos with suction cups, clitoral stimulation toys with air pulse technology – preferable with an oval opening, and silicone tongue pump combination toys. I also enjoy kinky & BDSM tools, Pleasure Furniture, vibrating and rotating butt plugs, app-controlled kegel ball vibrators, electro stimulation devices, and other sensation-based tools. Access all my favourite pleasure things here and save here.

When I’m truly turned on, my Primal energy takes over, and I love to indulge in the raw intensity of the moment. Whether it’s using my fingers to scratch or bite, or embracing my partner’s passion, I find this connection incredibly arousing and intimate. I crave that deep, instinctual connection - it's raw, real and vulnerable.

Being a Libra with a Venus in Scorpio, I’m driven by a desire for balance, variety, and intensely passionate experiences. I believe in giving as much as I receive, and when I set my mind to something, I go all in with determination and purpose.

My erotic blueprint leans toward energetic play, closely followed by a love for both kinky and sensual experiences. I find energy work intertwined with sensual and kinky practices to be an incredibly fulfilling combination.

In Human Design, I’m a Generator with a 6/3 profile, which means I thrive on adventure while staying true to my values. Listening to my gut instincts is my authority and helps me share that positive energy with others. My dominant gift is 32 – a nose for success.

My dominant love language is Acts of Service – nothing warms my heart more than someone making my life a little easier in thoughtful ways. This is followed closely by words and touch.

Some of my other passions include lifting weights, yoga, reading, walking, sunrises, podcasts, and healthy, delicious food – all the self-care rituals that make me feel good and turn me on. I’ve truly fallen in love with myself and life. I’m committed to embracing a fully conscious and present life The Pleasurelit Way!

As a Hedonist and Pleasure Slut, I prioritise pleasure in every aspect of my life. It’s been a challenging journey, but one that’s led me to become the best version of myself - mentally, emotionally, and physically – constantly evolving into the woman I aspire to be. This also led me to live a sober life. My pleasure experiences and overall wellbeing is at peak when I live a healthy, mindful and active lifestyle.

I’m also a survivor of Anorexia, abuse, and Domestic Violence. Growing up, I experienced various forms of abuse, which led to an eating disorder at 17. My life took a pivotal turn in 2017 when I put an end to Domestic Violence and broke free from that cycle. I actually broke a generation cycle in that moment. That’s when my healing journey began. After enduring abuse, I dimmed my light, shut down my pleasure, and struggled to love myself. My self-esteem was low, and I sought validation and love from others, giving up everything to please them in the hope they would love me in return. I didn’t prioritise myself at all. Everything changed when I took responsibility for my life and choices. One brave decision led to another, and slowly, I healed, improved my self-love, and unlocked my potential for pleasure. When I separated from my kids’ father, I set health and fitness goals. I wanted to be healthier and fitter – not just for myself but for my children. My first goal was to become stronger, in case I ever needed to defend myself. I never stuck to a fitness routine before, but this time was different. I had a powerful reason why, and I kept reminding myself of it. Eventually, home workouts became part of my daily self-care routine. The benefits of healthier eating and regular exercise were undeniable – my mood lifted, I felt more energised, stronger - both physically and mentally, and my confidence and self-esteem grew. I lost a little bit of weight, built muscle, and transformed my body. My libido increased, and my mindset became more positive. I knew I wanted more, so I invested in myself, studying fitness and nutrition while balancing my career in nursing and aged care management and caring for my young kids.

End of 2019, I started my own business journey and founded, “Healthy with Trisha,” as a certified Personal Trainer, Master Trainer and Nutrition Coach, with a mission to help women transform their lives by embracing a healthier lifestyle. My primary focus was to empower women, particularly those overcoming the trauma of abuse and domestic violence, to reclaim their strength and confidence. Over the years, I have guided many women to achieve long-term success, from weight loss to building physical and emotional resilience. The most rewarding feedback I consistently received was, “I feel more confident in my own skin, and my self-love has grown immensely.” This realisation highlighted for me the essential role self-love plays in creating a fulfilling life, enhancing not just physical well-being but also pleasure, success and overall happiness. It was this understanding that deepened my passion for promoting self-love and pleasure.

I take great joy in inspiring others to explore themselves, embrace their desires, and step into their authentic truth. Helping others unlock their potential for self-love and pleasure has become my life’s work. In 2021, I took a bold leap by leaving my career in aged care management and nursing, moving from South Australia to Queensland, and fully committing to working for myself. I ventured into the adult industry as a content creator in Jan 2022, and shortly thereafter, began my journey as a Pleasure Toy Reviewer and Blogger. This work has allowed me to explore my own body in ways I otherwise wouldn't have. I fell in love with parts of myself that I once struggled to embrace, such as my post pregnancy boobs (aka saggy mom boobs). This has then transitioned into the temple of Patricia - a sacred place for me to share my pleasurelit energy.

Recognising the need for balance and presence in my life, I turned to Yoga, which became a transformative practice for grounding me and reconnecting with my feminine energy. As a certified Yoga Trainer (350 hours), I have learned the significance of asanas, energy work, meditation, breathwork, and journaling – practices that have enriched every aspect of my life. In particular, breath and meditation have been powerful tools for deepening pleasure and even enhancing orgasmic experiences through body awareness. This inspired me to become a certified Breath, Meditation & Yoga Teacher.

When women then started to reach out to me about sexual questions, I decided to expand my knowledge and continued my professional and personal pleasure growth. I became a certified Somatic Sex Coach, Tantra Practitioner and BDSM Practitioner. Within those trainings I was able to deepen my skills in meditation, breathwork, somatic practices, energetics, sensuality, self-love and even more pleasure. In combining my expertise in fitness, yoga, tantra and pleasure education, I rebranded my business to “SelflovePleasure” at first and then to “Pleasurelit”.

Pleasurelit™ is a way of being — a remembrance of who you are beneath the noise, the doing, and the striving.
It’s the art of living turned on by yourself, by life itself. To be Pleasurelit is to live from your body, guided by pleasure, anchored in presence, and open to receive the love, abundance, and magick that are already yours. It’s not about adding more to yourself — it’s about coming home to what’s been within you all along. Your pleasure, your power, your energy — lit from within.

The Pleasurelit Way blends the wisdom of tantra, embodiment, health, energetics, and somatic living into a modern path for women who are ready to stop chasing and start receiving. It’s an initiation into embodied radiance — where pleasure becomes your compass, energy your currency, and your presence the magnet for everything you desire. Pleasurelit is a lifestyle and your state of being.

I was honoured to receive Multiple Awards for my work as a Pleasure Pleasure Educator, Reviewer and Creator, a milestone that reinforces my mission to inspire and empower others to embrace their most authentic pleasure self.

In 2025, I published my first book "The Pleasurelit Way", which became Number 1 Bestseller on Amazon within 18 hours of launch. The Pleasurelit Way is more than a book. It is a movement, a reclamation, a rising. The Pleasurelit Way is a way of living and being. Pleasure is our birthright. Self-love is our foundation. Education empowers us. Experience transforms us. You deserve to be and live pleasurelit - unapologetically.

I am looking forward to sharing more real, raw, personal and expert pleasure insights, wisdom and tips with you within

• The Pleasurelit Journal

• Pleasurelit Courses and Programs

• The Pleasurelit Circle

• The Temple of Patricia

• Bestseller Book "The Pleasurelit Way"

I look forward to connecting with you.

With love & pleasure,

Pleasurelit Patricia