Pleasure with Toys & Tools

From Curious to Confident with Pleasure Toys and Tools

Do you feel

• Unsure which toys are best for you and your desires?

• Curious, but a little shy or overwhelmed by all the options?

• Concerned about safety, hygiene, or using toys “the right way”?

• Wanting more pleasure and play, but not sure how to begin?

• Eager to explore with a partner but lacking language or confidence?

First of all, I want you to know that you are not alone in this. I remember the first time I walked into an adult toy store. I was excited, but also nervous and overwhelmed by the tools available. There are so many different kinds of pleasure toys and tools, new ones invented and released as we speak. There is also a lot of misinformation around. I have made many mistakes on my pleasure toy journey, so you don’t have to. From a melting rabbit vibrator, to using the wrong lube to playing with tools the wrong way.. Let me be your guide to playing confidently with pleasure toys and tools, so you can enjoy yourself fully! After all, I have been called the Multi-award-Winning Pleasure Toy Queen for a reason!

Welcome to the Pleasure with Toys

Pleasure with Toys is your ultimate guide to exploring pleasure toys & tools with confidence, clarity, and excitement—whether you’re solo, partnered, kinky, or just curious.

Inside the Course

You’ll get access to Masterclasses, Video tutorials, Guides and more on:

• Pleasure Toy Basics Understand types, materials, safety, cleaning, storage, travel, and choosing the right toy for you.

• The Ultimate Toy Guide Vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, prostate massagers, penis rings, pleasure pumps, air-pulsation toys – all explained in juicy detail.

• Kinky & BDSM Tools From clamps and cuffs to strap-ons, chastity, sensory tools and electroplay—step into the world of kinky exploration with confidence.

• Lube 101 Discover why lube is a must, which ones are body and toy safe, and how to elevate every experience with the right glide.

• Pleasure Toy Play Techniques Explore how to use toys for orgasms, anal pleasure, squirting, prostate play, pumping, edging, and more.

• Pleasure Experts Get bonus wisdom from special guests on toy play and pleasure expansion.

• Pleasure Journal Prompts Reflect on your desires, track your discoveries, and build confidence through guided journaling.

• Lifetime Access Go at your own pace, revisit lessons anytime, and keep growing your pleasure toolkit.

How You will Feel After the Course…

• Confident in choosing and using toys that truly work for you

• Knowledgeable about body-safer materials, toy types, and how to care for them

• Turned on and empowered to explore solo or with a lover

• Fully equipped with pleasure-enhancing tools, techniques, and toy wisdom

• Excited to play more, shame less, and live fully Pleasurelit

This course is for

• Pleasure Beginners looking for a solid, safe, shame-free foundation

• Curious Explorers ready to level up their toy play knowledge and skill

• Couples who want to enhance intimacy and add excitement to their play

• Pleasure Enthusiasts who want expert techniques and tools to go deeper

This is a Pleasure Revolution.

Join Pleasure with Toys and move from shy to shameless, hesitant to hell yes, and curious to completely confident.

You deserve toys that turn you on and a life that lights you up.

Are You Ready to Play?

Terms and conditions apply, for 18+ adult legal age only. Got questions? Email pleasurelitmail@gmail.com

(Previously known as The Pleasure & Toy School)

Meet Patricia

I’m Patricia, a mother, DV survivor, pleasure explorer & founder of Pleasurelit®.

I grew up with abuse and learnt early to be independent. For most of my life I was capable, responsible, high achieving. I held everything together. From the outside I functioned. Inside, I felt disconnected, on autopilot, tense and constantly on. I wanted to feel loved, chosen, seen. I wanted to be saved. I looked for validation externally.

Until the moment that changed everything. I chose myself. I broke out of my DV marriage. I made my pleasure, my happiness and my safety my responsibility.

That choice became a daily practice and the beginning of my pleasurelit journey.

I started “dating” myself instead of other people. I invited pleasure toys, tools, practices and new sensations into it. Today, I own over 400 pleasure tools, have reviewed hundreds and explored countless pleasure practices. I gave myself permission to lean into my curiosity, led by my body.

At the same time, I went even deeper. Somatic practices. Nervous system regulation. Tantra. Breathwork. Weightlifting. Kink. Yoga. Meditation. Each became a portal to pleasure.

I discovered that pleasure is an energy that is already within us, one we can awaken, deepen and widen.

I once was a woman who didn't love herself. A people pleaser who barely felt her own pleasure. Today, I can access pleasure in life, motherhood, leadership, relationships, in ways I never imagined possible.

Pleasurelit was born from my lived reclamation and transformation. From my desire to be and live from a body lit with pleasure.

I am extensively trained, trauma-informed, and an award-winning educator in pleasure embodiment. What matters most is that I have walked this path myself. I know the disconnection. I know a body in survival mode. And I know what becomes possible when a woman expands her capacity to feel.

I am deeply devoted to this work. Pleasurelit is not a trend for me. It is the way I choose to embody, live, love and lead. It has held me through trauma, full time single motherhood, building a business from nothing, and many other life challenges. I chose pleasure instead of shut down again and again.

I care about women who carry a lot, who hold it all together, who look fine on the outside while their bodies are disconnected, tight and tired underneath. Pleasurelit exists so we can feel alive in our own skin. So we can feel regulated, resourced, deeply connected & deliciously turned on. Lit from within.

If I could shift from surviving in my body to genuinely and deeply loving myself, so can you.

You are allowed to want more than survival. You deserve access to your own pleasure. We are meant to be and live Pleasurelit.

My successfully completed qualifications, real hands-on experiences, exploration, self-study & development:

• Tantra Practitioner & Sacred Sexuality Coach

• Somatic Sex Coach

• Trauma-Informed Coach

• Breathwork Facilitator

• Meditation Teacher

• Yoga Teacher (350hr)

• Kink, BDSM & Professional Dominatrix

• Pleasure Product Reviewer

• Content Creator

• Speaker

• Author

• Workshops, Events, Programs & Space Facilitator

• Podcast Host

• Reiki Master

• Personal Trainer & Fitness Master Trainer

• Nutrition Coach

• Sensual Dance Teacher

• Educational Trainer & Assessor

• Enrolled & Registered Nurse

• Recognise & Respond Appropriately to DV

• Work, Health, Safety & Return to Work Management

• Quality & Control Management

• Infection Prevention & Control Leader

• Business Management

• Bank Assistance Manager

• Backpacking, Farming & Hospitality

• Babysitter, Nanny, Children Camp Leader

• & more

Pleasurelit Members Feedback

Check out what other pleasure beings have said.

“I joined Patricia’s Program because I didn’t like myself. I wanted to like myself again. Patricia’s program is brilliant. Online with full of tools. Patricia is fully invested in you and your journey. I have enjoyed her program. I feel the best that I have been for a very long time. Mentally and physically. Her program is enjoyable and easy to follow. The program looks at the whole body and mind. Patricia is approachable and down to earth. I totally recommend her and her program! She is amazing!”

My-healthyjourney C

“Absolutely I would recommend Patricia’s programs. Especially for people who struggle with self love/self worth issues. Although I have been working on these myself for a few years, since watching and interacting with Patricia, my confidence has improved immensely and I have learnt so much from her. She is such an inspiration! Patricia is absolutely amazing!! The knowledge I have gained from working with her is just incredible! Patricia is very knowledgeable and an absolutely beautiful soul to work with and interact with. She goes above and beyond to ensure I feel safe, comfortable and at ease. She is someone who I will always remember as having such a huge positive impact on my life and playing a huge part in my healing and self love journey!! I am absolutely honoured to have met Patricia!

Kayla

“Patricia is very motivating and clearly passionate about what she is doing. She knows what she is talking about. Her own story is very inspirational, especially as a DV survivor, Trisha is inspiring and empowering other women on her journey! I feel more confident in myself now!”

Angela

“Patricia’s overall approach is very professional and she is incredibly knowledgeable and dedicated to support you on your journey. She has helped me achieve my goals like no other! I feel more confident in myself, mentally and physically. Her own journey is extremely inspirational. Highly recommended Patricia.”

Dimi

“Patricia is very motivating and so comfortable. I can ask her any questions. I enjoyed her program. I definitely recommend Patricia. Very supportive. I feel more confident now. She has changed my life for the better. She can help you too, especially when you want to change your life after DV!”

Donna