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Patricia is the founder of Pleasurelit®, mother, DV survivor, pleasure explorer, bestselling author of The Pleasurelit Way, creator of The Pleasurelit Woman, host of Pleasurelit with Patricia, and an award-winning educator in pleasure embodiment.
Pleasurelit® was born from Patricia's own lived transformation. She transformed from disconnected to feeling alive, deeply connected and deliciously turned on by herself and life itself.
She works with women who hold a lot, who are highly functional, run businesses, care for others, lead, but feel tense, tired, and disconnected underneath. Women who want more than survival. Women ready to embody The Pleasurelit Woman.
The Pleasurelit Way is Patricia’s tantric somatic embodiment framework that supports women to expand their capacity for pleasure, so they live, love, and lead from within their bodies, without paying for it burnout, disconnection, or self-abandonment.
Patricia’s approach integrates trauma-informed somatics, nervous system regulation, tantra, breathwork, kink, yoga, fitness, and embodied leadership. She has explored over 400 pleasure tools and countless practices, giving herself and other's permission to follow their body’s curiosity. This isn’t a trend for her, it’s how she chose to navigate trauma, full-time single motherhood, and building a business from nothing.
Pleasurelit exists because Patricia knows what becomes possible when a woman expands her capacity to feel. She has walked this path herself—from survival mode to genuine self-love—and she is deeply devoted to supporting others in their own reclamation.
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Patricia is a mother, DV survivor, pleasure explorer & the founder of Pleasurelit®. She transformed from disconnected to feeling alive, deeply connected and deliciously turned on by herself and life itself. She supports women to expand their capacity for pleasure, so they live, love & lead from within their body, without paying for it with burnout, disconnection, or self-abandonment. She is the bestselling author of The Pleasurelit Way, creator of The Pleasurelit Woman, host of Pleasurelit with Patricia, and an award-winning educator in tantric somatic pleasure embodiment.
My successfully completed qualifications, real hands-on experiences, exploration, self-study & development:
Tantra Practitioner & Sacred Sexuality Coach
Somatic Sex Coach
Trauma-Informed Coach
Breathwork Facilitator
Meditation Teacher
Yoga Teacher (350hr)
Kink, BDSM & Professional Dominatrix
Pleasure Product Reviewer
Content Creator
Speaker
Author
Workshops, Events, Programs & Space Facilitator
Podcast Host
Reiki Master
Personal Trainer & Fitness Master Trainer
Nutrition Coach
Sensual Dance Teacher
Educational Trainer & Assessor
Enrolled & Registered Nurse
Recognise & Respond Appropriately to DV
Work, Health, Safety & Return to Work Management
Quality & Control Management
Infection Prevention & Control Leader
Business Management
Bank Assistance Manager
Backpacking, Farming & Hospitality
Babysitter, Nanny, Children Camp Leader
& more
MEDIA & SPEAKING TOPICS
Patricia is available for keynotes, panels, podcast interviews and curated events.
Her work centres on Pleasurelit® Embodiment, a body-led approach to living, leading and relating without disconnecting from the body in the process. She speaks to women who hold a lot. Founders. Leaders. Mothers. Professionals. Women who function well on the outside, yet feel tense, disconnected, on autopilot or constantly on. Across all stages, Patricia reframes pleasure not as indulgence, but as capacity, the body’s ability to hold aliveness, intimacy, money, visibility and success without bracing or burning out.
Her speaking is guided by two core pillars.
IDENTITY KEYNOTE: The Pleasurelit Woman
The Pleasurelit Woman: Living, Loving and Leading in a Pleasure-Led Body
This keynote speaks to the woman who is done abandoning herself to perform, achieve or hold everything together. Through story, somatic insight and embodied perspective, Patricia invites audiences to reconnect to the version of themselves who leads, loves and lives from within the body.
This talk can be tailored for the following spaces:
Lifestyle, Health & Wellbeing Spaces
The Pleasurelit Woman: Reclaiming Pleasure in a Full Life That Looks “Fine”
For women who are high-functioning yet tired, doing it all yet on autopilot, or successful yet disconnected.
Audiences leave with:
A clear understanding of nervous system capacity and why “functioning well” can still feel empty
Language for the tension and subtle bracing they’ve been carrying
Practical tools to shift from autopilot into embodied presence — without abandoning responsibility or themselves
Business, Leadership & Work
The Pleasurelit Woman: Leading with Pleasure, Without Collapse
For founders, leaders and professionals who want to grow without sacrificing their body in the process.
Audiences leave with:
Tools for embodied decision-making and regulation under visibility, pressure and growth
Awareness of how bracing shows up in leadership and success
A new understanding of how pleasure expands leadership capacity, creativity and clarity
Relationships, Sexuality & Intimacy
The Pleasurelit Woman: From Performance to Pleasure in Love and Sex
For women ready to move beyond pressure, pleasing or performance.
Audiences leave with:
Awareness of where they’ve been pleasing instead of feeling
Tools for embodied consent, receiving and deeper presence
The capacity to hold pleasure and intimacy without shutting down or disconnecting
FRAMEWORK KEYNOTE: The Pleasurelit Way
The Pleasurelit Way: Awaken, Deepen and Widen Your Pleasure Potential
In this keynote, Patricia brings her bestselling framework, The Pleasurelit Way, to the stage — a tantric somatic embodiment approach designed to expand pleasure capacity. The Pleasurelit Way positions pleasure as the body’s ability to hold aliveness, intimacy, ambition, support and success without bracing, burnout or self-abandonment.
Through story, somatic insight and structured teaching, Patricia guides audiences through the four Pleasurelit Pathways and their practical portals to pleasure, offering both perspective and applicable tools.
The Four Pleasurelit Pathways
Pleasurelit Embodied Self-Care
Awakening pleasure through unapologetic self-love, sensual nutrition, intuitive movement and embodied rituals that build nervous system stability.
Pleasurelit Intentions & Mindfulness
Deepening pleasure through presence, desire-led intention and conscious practices that shift survival into embodied leadership.
Pleasurelit Connections
Widening pleasure through communication, boundaries and nourishing relationships — with self, others, money and life.
Pleasurelit Exploration & Play
Expanding pleasure through curiosity, embodied consent, tantra-informed practice, desire and kink exploration.
What Audiences Experience
Awareness of the survival patterns that limit pleasure, love, intimacy and success
A structured framework they can apply across life, leadership and love
Practical embodied practices and tantric somatic tools that expand pleasure capacity sustainably
This keynote can be tailored to emphasise specific pathways depending on the hosting space — from wellbeing and personal growth, to leadership and business, to relationships and intimacy.
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