The Pleasurelit® Domme

If you feel:

• A pull toward dominance but shame around claiming it

• Curiosity about BDSM that feels deeper than bedroom experimentation

• A desire to lead power dynamics consciously and safely

• Tension between your spiritual self and your erotic hunger

• The urge to be worshipped and fully received

This is your initiation.

This is not “how to spice up your sex life.”

This is erotic pleasure leadership.

After this course, you will

• Feel deeply connected to your dominant energies — whether that's playful, primal, sensual, or strict

• Feel confident in creating and leading BDSM and kink scenes with clarity, safety, and turn-on

• Receiving pleasure and worship without apology

• Speak your desires without shrinking

• Hold control and dominance from a regulated nervous system

• Lead from your pleasure

• Awaken a part of you that has been waiting for your permission

This is for the woman ready to claim her dominance consciously.

Whether you embody this in your personal life or feel called to explore it professionally, you will leave with embodied tools, structured understanding, and erotic self-leadership.

Inside the Course, you will get access to:

• The Art of Female Domination – Explore the psychology, energy, and expression of being a Domme

• The Pleasurelit Domme - embody her to lead with pleasure for more pleasure

• BDSM 101 – Core principles, dynamics, and play tools explained for beginners

• Conscious Kink 101 – Embody kink as a pathway to healing, power, and connection

• Safety, Consent & Negotiation – How to create trust, safe containers, and clarity

• Submission Training – Train your submissive to become your pleasure servant

• Worship - Learn how to receive the gift of being worshipped

• The dark Feminine - Get to know your dark feminine and embrace all parts of you

• Domme in the Bedroom - Learn how to dominate your partner in the bedroom

• Findom Foundations – Learn the empowered and ethical art of financial domination

• Chastity Play – All things you need to know about Male Chastity & Key holding Play

• Breath Play & Erotic Intensity – Techniques for edgy yet embodied experiences

• More Kink, BDSM & Fetish Explorations

• Example Videos of Kink & BDSM Plays and Practices

• Somatic Practices & Journal Prompts – Drop into your body, awaken your power, integrate your pleasure

This is advanced feminine power.

After this work, you will not just “know kink.” You will embody your pleasure power.

This program weaves professional dominatrix training, lived erotic exploration, and the Pleasurelit somatic framework into one cohesive path.

Your Pleasure is your Power

Claim it

Adults 18+ only. Terms & conditions apply.

Got questions? Email pleasurelitmail@gmail.com

Meet Patricia

I’m Patricia, a mother, DV survivor, pleasure explorer & founder of Pleasurelit®.

I grew up with abuse and learnt early to be independent. For most of my life I was capable, responsible, high achieving. I held everything together. From the outside I functioned. Inside, I felt disconnected, on autopilot, tense and constantly on. I wanted to feel loved, chosen, seen. I wanted to be saved. I looked for validation externally.

Until the moment that changed everything. I chose myself. I broke out of my DV marriage. I made my pleasure, my happiness and my safety my responsibility.

That choice became a daily practice and the beginning of my pleasurelit journey.

I started “dating” myself instead of other people. I invited pleasure toys, tools, practices and new sensations into it. Today, I own over 400 pleasure tools, have reviewed hundreds and explored countless pleasure practices. I gave myself permission to lean into my curiosity, led by my body.

At the same time, I went even deeper. Somatic practices. Nervous system regulation. Tantra. Breathwork. Weightlifting. Kink. Yoga. Meditation. Each became a portal to pleasure.

I discovered that pleasure is an energy that is already within us, one we can awaken, deepen and widen.

I once was a woman who didn't love herself. A people pleaser who barely felt her own pleasure. Today, I can access pleasure in life, motherhood, leadership, relationships, in ways I never imagined possible.

Pleasurelit was born from my lived reclamation and transformation. From my desire to be and live from a body lit with pleasure.

I am extensively trained, trauma-informed, and an award-winning educator in pleasure embodiment. What matters most is that I have walked this path myself. I know the disconnection. I know a body in survival mode. And I know what becomes possible when a woman expands her capacity to feel.

I am deeply devoted to this work. Pleasurelit is not a trend for me. It is the way I choose to embody, live, love and lead. It has held me through trauma, full time single motherhood, building a business from nothing, and many other life challenges. I chose pleasure instead of shut down again and again.

I care about women who carry a lot, who hold it all together, who look fine on the outside while their bodies are disconnected, tight and tired underneath. Pleasurelit exists so we can feel alive in our own skin. So we can feel regulated, resourced, deeply connected & deliciously turned on. Lit from within.

If I could shift from surviving in my body to genuinely and deeply loving myself, so can you.

You are allowed to want more than survival. You deserve access to your own pleasure. We are meant to be and live Pleasurelit.

My successfully completed qualifications, real hands-on experiences, exploration, self-study & development:

• Tantra Practitioner & Sacred Sexuality Coach

• Somatic Sex Coach

• Trauma-Informed Coach

• Breathwork Facilitator

• Meditation Teacher

• Yoga Teacher (350hr)

• Kink, BDSM & Professional Dominatrix

• Pleasure Product Reviewer

• Content Creator

• Speaker

• Author

• Workshops, Events, Programs & Space Facilitator

• Podcast Host

• Reiki Master

• Personal Trainer & Fitness Master Trainer

• Nutrition Coach

• Sensual Dance Teacher

• Educational Trainer & Assessor

• Enrolled & Registered Nurse

• Recognise & Respond Appropriately to DV

• Work, Health, Safety & Return to Work Management

• Quality & Control Management

• Infection Prevention & Control Leader

• Business Management

• Bank Assistance Manager

• Backpacking, Farming & Hospitality

• Babysitter, Nanny, Children Camp Leader

• & more

Pleasurelit Members Feedback

Check out what other pleasure beings have said.

“I joined Patricia’s Program because I didn’t like myself. I wanted to like myself again. Patricia’s program is brilliant. Online with full of tools. Patricia is fully invested in you and your journey. I have enjoyed her program. I feel the best that I have been for a very long time. Mentally and physically. Her program is enjoyable and easy to follow. The program looks at the whole body and mind. Patricia is approachable and down to earth. I totally recommend her and her program! She is amazing!”

My-healthyjourney C

“Absolutely I would recommend Patricia’s programs. Especially for people who struggle with self love/self worth issues. Although I have been working on these myself for a few years, since watching and interacting with Patricia, my confidence has improved immensely and I have learnt so much from her. She is such an inspiration! Patricia is absolutely amazing!! The knowledge I have gained from working with her is just incredible! Patricia is very knowledgeable and an absolutely beautiful soul to work with and interact with. She goes above and beyond to ensure I feel safe, comfortable and at ease. She is someone who I will always remember as having such a huge positive impact on my life and playing a huge part in my healing and self love journey!! I am absolutely honoured to have met Patricia!

Kayla

“Patricia is very motivating and clearly passionate about what she is doing. She knows what she is talking about. Her own story is very inspirational, especially as a DV survivor, Trisha is inspiring and empowering other women on her journey! I feel more confident in myself now!”

Angela

“Patricia’s overall approach is very professional and she is incredibly knowledgeable and dedicated to support you on your journey. She has helped me achieve my goals like no other! I feel more confident in myself, mentally and physically. Her own journey is extremely inspirational. Highly recommended Patricia.”

Dimi

“Patricia is very motivating and so comfortable. I can ask her any questions. I enjoyed her program. I definitely recommend Patricia. Very supportive. I feel more confident now. She has changed my life for the better. She can help you too, especially when you want to change your life after DV!”

Donna