Become a Pleasurelit Explorer

The Pleasurelit Explorers is the space where we explore pleasure together.

I’m Patricia, multi-award-winning somatic pleasure educator, bestselling author and most importantly: a passionate pleasure explorer. Previously also known as The Pleasure Toy Queen.

Curious and open minded by nature, I have always been a pleasure explorer. Things changed when I learnt to be the "good girl", achieving, performing, unable to receive, and after surviving a DV marriage I completely disconnected from my body. Exploration led me back. I followed what lit me up, explored over 400 pleasure tools, countless somatic pleasure practices, and completed more than 20 certifications. Which means I have a lot to share.

From pleasure toys, tools, practices to Tantra, kink, somatics, and everyday pleasures. I have explored most of what's out there. And if there’s something you are curious about or a topic you want me to explore, I would love to hear it. Chances are I have been there, and if I haven’t, I’ll might add it to my pleasure bucket list.

Whether you are already exploring your pleasure, feel disconnected from your body or are curious about what’s possible, you are in the right place.

Let's explore together: