Be & live Pleasurelit®

Choose your path

For the one who wants to awaken & reconnect

You were never meant to feel numb, disconnected, or unsafe in your own skin.
You were never meant to silence your body’s wisdom or override its boundaries.

You are meant to come home to your body and to community.
To breathe, to feel, to awaken every sensation.

Feel supported, embodied, and alive with pleasure.

For the one who wants to learn & remember

You were never meant to give until you’re empty.
You were never meant to prove your worth by doing more, holding more, sacrificing yourself.

You are meant to receive — love, pleasure, health and wealth.
You are meant to soften, open, and let life flow through you.
To know you are worthy of everything you desire simply by being who you are.

This is the Pleasurelit Way — reclaiming your birthright to embody and receive fully, unapologetically.

For the one who wants to go deep & personalised

You are not here to repeat old patterns, carry weight of unhealed stories, or settle for a life that feels numb or stuck.

You are here to feel fully, to heal what's been holding you back, and to break through your blocks.

Your journey is personalised, embodied, and real.

This is your path to feeling more, receiving more, and becoming more YOU.

For individuals and couples.

For the one who wants to start

You were never meant to silence your desires.
You were never meant to numb your body, push past your limits, or live on autopilot.
You were never meant to give endlessly while forgetting yourself.

You are meant to be lit from within.
To feel safe in your body and confident in your energy - magnetic to love, health, wealth and life itself.
Because when you open to pleasure, you open to everything. The way you receive pleasure, is the way you receive love, money, health and all forms of abundance.

The Pleasurelit Way is the way of living - to feel alive, connected, embodied, loved and magnetic. And it is waiting for you..

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Meet Patricia

I’m a Tantric Embodied Pleasure Guide and founder of Pleasurelit®. My work supports people of all genders and relationship styles to move from disconnection, numbness, or blockages into conscious embodied pleasure, emotional safety, and aliveness in their body and life. For some, this is a return to pleasure. For others, it is a deepening of it.

With a background spanning healthcare, somatics, Tantra, yoga, breathwork, sexuality, trauma-informed practice, fitness, nutrition, education, and conscious kink, I weave science and embodied experience into grounded, pleasure-led transformation. My work is about learning how to feel safe to receive pleasure and amplify its potential.

I come to this work through lived experience. As a mother, a survivor of domestic violence and abuse, and someone who has walked the long road from shutdown to sensation, I understand the tenderness and resistance that can arise when opening the body after pain. I know what it takes to trust pleasure again, to stay present with sensation, and to let life move through you fully. I walked the path from people-pleasing to pleasure-leading.

I am also a long-time pleasure explorer, with hands-on experience with hundreds of pleasure tools, practices, and modalities. This curiosity is devotional. A way of meeting my body honestly, playfully, and without shame.

My bestselling book The Pleasurelit Way is a four-path framework rooted in care, connection, embodiment, and play. And Pleasurelit Alchemy is my signature method, softening disconnection into embodied pleasure.

Through my multi-award-winning podcast, courses, programs, and online community, I shape a new conversation around pleasure, one that centres embodiment, integration, and living from sensation rather than protection. My work invites people to stop managing their body and start living in it.

My successfully completed qualifications additionally to real hands-on experiences, exploration, self-study and self-development:

• Somatic Sex Coach

• Tantra Practitioner & Sacred Sexuality Coach

• Trauma-Informed Coach

• Breathwork Facilitator

• Meditation Teacher

• Yoga Teacher (350hr)

• Kink, BDSM & Professional Dominatrix

• Reiki Master

• Enrolled & Registered Nurse

• Recognise & Respond Appropriately to Domestic Violence

• Work, Health, Safety & Return to Work

• Quality & Control Management & Infection Prevention & Control Leader

• Personal Trainer & Fitness Master Trainer

• Nutrition Coach

• Sensual Dance Teacher

• Educational Trainer & Assessor

• Business Management

• Bank Assistance Manager