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Self-love Tips
3 Tips to love yourself more deeply
SELF-LOVE
Queen Patricia
1/15/20251 min read
Self-love Tips
Do you struggle with making yourself a priority?
Do you desire to deepen the connection and love to yourself?

Here are three powerful ways to make yourself a priority
1️⃣ Own Your Yes and No
Your time, energy, and emotions are sacred. Every time you say “yes” out of obligation, you’re saying “no” to yourself. Flip the script: Before responding, pause and ask, Is this aligned with my needs and desires? If not, honour yourself and say no—without guilt, without over-explaining, and without apology.
2️⃣ Deepen Your Connection to Yourself
Feeling disconnected? That’s your body calling you home. Set aside intentional time to check in—whether through mindful breath, sensual touch, journaling, or just sitting with your emotions. Connection starts when you stop running from yourself and start listening.
3️⃣ Speak Up—Unfiltered, Unapologetic
Your voice matters. Your desires matter. Your truth matters. If you’ve been shrinking yourself to keep others comfortable, it’s time to take up space. Start small—express a need, state a preference, share an opinion. The more you use your voice, the stronger it becomes.
Ready to explore your love in more depth?
I highly suggest to also tune into The Pleasurelit Podcast, because I love asking all my guest speakers about their number one tips for self-love and pleasure towards the end of the episode.
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You are worthy of love & pleasure!
With love & pleasure,
Pleasurelit Patricia
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