Orgasm Tips

3 Pleasure Tips on how to unlock multiple and different orgasms

If you’ve ever wondered why some talk about having multiple orgasms while you’re still figuring it out or have given up on it. I want you to know that you are not alone and you are not broken.

I didn’t start experiencing different types of orgasms - or more than one orgasm in a single session, until my mid 30s. And when I finally did, it had everything to do with shifting how I approached pleasure.

Whether you’re already riding waves of orgasmic bliss or just beginning your path, here are three powerful tips to help unlock your body’s full pleasure potential.

Tip one: Take the Pressure Off the Orgasm

Pleasure is a journey, not an end destination. When you approach intimacy or self-pleasure with a focus on climax, you often create tension, performance anxiety or even numbness. Try shifting your mindset to exploration and play.

I like to call different types of orgasms and pleasures “features” - like you’re on a delicious mission to unlock new levels in a game. Each session becomes an adventure of discovery.

When you release the pressure and focus on what feels good, you naturally open yourself up to more pleasure and eventually to different and multiple orgasms.

Tip two: Check Your Breathing (Seriously)

One of the most common blocks to deeper pleasure is your breathing.

I used to hold my breath every time I got close to an orgasm. Sound familiar? That unconscious tension can actually halt the energy needed to ride those orgasmic waves.

Instead, learn to stay connected to your body with deep, intentional breaths. This keeps you relaxed, present and open. Combine this with tuning into your true desires: What turns you on? What kind of touch, words, fantasies light you up? Give yourself more of that.

Pleasure expands when you honour what you want and lean into it without shame or guilt. A relaxed state of being is one that is open to pleasure and orgasms.

Tip three: Explore Tantric Pleasure Practices

Tantra has been a game-changer on my own sexual pleasure journey. Through tantric practices, I learnt to slow down, be present and engage all my senses. It’s about embodied pleasure, deepening your connection to yourself, your partners and awakening your sensual energy.

Even simple practices like eye-gazing, sensual breathwork or a yoni massage can help build energy in the body that results in longer-lasting, deeper, and yes - multiple orgasms.

Your presence, curiosity and the willingness to explore can unlock new pleasures you never thought possible.

Celebrate Your Pleasure Journey

Your body is a magical, ever-evolving temple of pleasure. Whether you’re just beginning to reconnect with your sensuality or are craving new experiences, celebrate every step of the way.

You deserve to feel good. You deserve to explore. You deserve to experience every orgasm your body wants to gift you.

Ready to deepen your journey and unlock more and deeper pleasure?

Explore my pleasure tools, courses and content to support your pleasure awakening.

With love & pleasure,

Queen Patricia