Dating tips for Men

This is for the ones who are serious about making a lasting impressing on women, the ones who want to support women to surrender and let go to the experience.

Women need these three things to open up to pleasure, open up to you!

Tip Number 1:

Women want to feel safe in your presence!

You need to provide a safe container for her to be able to let go and surrender to you and the experience.

How do you create a safe space for her?

This leads me to the next.

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Tip Number 2:

Women want to feel seen and heard.

Listen actively.

Ask the right questions.

Show interest in her being and life.

Compliment her - not the general body appearance compliments.

Make her compliments highlighting her uniqueness, her gifts, her talents.

Make her feel special, seen and heard.

Tip Number 3:

Women want to feel connected.

Eye gazing.

Intentional touch (appropriately).

Sharing vulnerability.

Making genuine compliments.

Give those ones a go.

I would love to hear about your experience.

How did the date go?

What other tips would you add?

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