Domme for Pleasure

Do you feel..
  • Unsure how to step into your dominant energy without guilt or shame?

  • Curious about BDSM or conscious kink, but overwhelmed or confused?

  • Drawn to power and erotic control—but unsure how to express it authentically?

  • Disconnected from your deeper feminine desires—especially the darker ones?

  • Longing to lead your partner, relationship, or even clients, but lacking the tools, lacking the confidence?

You are not alone. For years I had denied my deepest darkest desires. For years, I believed I needed to submit and surrender to men - as expected from me by society. But, I knew I had this dominant energy within me that wanted to be acknowledged. One day, I finally gave myself permission to explore my darker desires. It was the day I accepted those parts of me, embraced myself fully and awakened a new path of pleasure. Through this path, I found profound healing within myself, my pleasures, and with the masculine. From disliking men for what they have done to me in the past, I started to connect with them more deeply, providing a safe space for them to surrender and explore their pleasures. Through being worshipped and respected by men, I healed my relationship to the masculine. Embracing my inner dominant energy has been transformational!

Now is your time!

Your time to rise in your erotic power.

To be worshipped, to command, to receive.

Domme for Pleasure teaches you to awaken your darker and divine feminine energies.

To not only dominate—but to receive.

You learn to receive pleasure!

To be worshipped in your truth, radiance, and erotic authority.

You’ll explore different Domme energies—from strict and commanding to nurturing and sensual.

You get to play, explore, and choose what lights you up.

This is about embodied power, not performance.

About liberation, not domination for domination’s sake.

About sacred erotic leadership grounded in love, clarity, and full-body YES.

Inside the Course, you will get access to:
  • The Art of Female Domination – Explore the psychology, energy, and expression of being a Domme

  • BDSM 101 – Core principles, dynamics, and play tools explained for beginners

  • Conscious Kink 101 – Embody kink as a pathway to healing, power, and connection

  • Safety, Consent & Negotiation – How to create trust, safe containers, and clarity

  • Submission Training – Train your submissive to become your pleasure servant

  • Worship - Learn how to receive the gift of being worshipped

  • The dark Feminine - Get to know your dark feminine and embrace all parts of you

  • Domme in the Bedroom - Learn how to dominate your partner in the bedroom

  • Findom Foundations – Learn the empowered and ethical art of financial domination

  • Chastity Play – All things you need to know about Male Chastity & Key holding Play

  • Breath Play & Erotic Intensity – Techniques for edgy yet embodied experiences

  • More Kink, BDSM & Fetish Explorations

  • Example Videos of Kink & BDSM Plays and Practices

  • Somatic Practices & Journal Prompts – Drop into your body, awaken your power, integrate your pleasure

  • Private Pleasurelit Community – Telegram access

After This Course, You’ll Feel…
  • Deeply connected to your dominant energies — whether playful, primal, sensual, or strict

  • Confident in creating and leading BDSM and kink scenes with clarity, safety, and turn-on

  • A full-body YES to taking control and receiving pleasure without apology

  • Fluent in the erotic languages of power, surrender, seduction, and trust

  • Equipped with embodied tools to lead, play, and heal through sacred domination

  • Transformed — in your relationship to yourself, your partner, and your pleasure

Couples

This course will give you hours and hours of guided erotic play, deep emotional & physical connection. It is a toolkit for building erotic polarity and conscious power exchange, bringing new levels of communication, trust, and pleasure. Is is a fresh, exciting way to co-create intimacy for life

Men

Gift this course to your partner—and give her the tools, confidence, and permission to become your Domme. Support her rise into power, so you can fall into surrender. Let her learn to lead, and you’ll get to experience the sacred art of submission to the Divine Feminine—in safety, devotion, and turn-on. Her power is your freedom. Your gift is her awakening.

All of This — For Only $169 USD

Yes, really.

You’re getting an entire pleasure-led, kink-informed, Domme embodiment journey for less than the cost of a single private session.

Not because it’s small.

But because I want as many people as possible to awaken their erotic leadership, break through shame, and live their most pleasurelit lives.

This course could easily be $699+.

But it’s yours for $169 USD — forever.

One payment. Lifetime access. Infinite possibilities.

Domme for Pleasure will transform the way you love, lead, and feel pleasure.

🔥 Your Pleasure is Power. Your Power is Sacred.

Awaken the unapologetic erotic leader within you.

Your desires are divine.

Your Domme energy is ready.

Let her rise.

Adults 18+ only. Terms & conditions apply.

Got questions? Email pleasurelitmail@gmail.com

Meet your Pleasurelit Educator

I’m Patricia—your Pleasurelit EdMuse (Educator Muse)

Through The Pleasurelit Way, I guide you to embody unapologetic confidence, deep self-love and magnetic pleasure - so you feel deliciously turned on to life, yourself, and every pleasure in between.

Having lived through domestic violence, abuse, low self-esteem, and a disconnected life, I transformed by exploring 350+ pleasure tools, countless somatic practices, and over 20 certifications (in Health, Sexuality, Tantra, Kink, Fitness, Yoga, Education and Business)—creating The Pleasurelit Way as a path that blends real-life experience with multi-award-winning education.

You will find The Pleasurelit Way within my bestselling book, immersive online programs, real life pleasure experiences, the Pleasurelit Insider, and more - accessible for anyone curious to explore the full depth of their pleasure potential.

You were never meant to dim your light. You are meant to be and live Pleasurelit—unapologetically.

PLeasurelit Patricia with her book The Pleasurelit Way
PLeasurelit Patricia with her book The Pleasurelit Way

My successfully completed qualifications additionally to real hands-on experiences, exploration, self-study and self-development:

  • Bank Assistance Manager

  • Enrolled & Registered Nurse

  • Business Management

  • Work, Health, Safety & Return to Work

  • Quality & Control Management and Infection prevention & control Leader

  • Personal Trainer & Fitness Master Trainer

  • Nutrition Coach

  • Educational Trainer & Assessor

  • Recognise & respond appropriately to DV

  • Reiki Master

  • Sensual Dance Teacher

  • Yoga Teacher (350hr)

  • Meditation Teacher

  • Breathwork Trainer

  • Trauma informed Coach

  • Tantra Practitioner & Sacred Sexuality Coach

  • Somatic Sex Coach

  • Kink, BDSM & Professional Dominatrix

Pleasurelit Members Feedback

Check out what other pleasure beings have said.

“I joined Patricia’s Program because I didn’t like myself. I wanted to like myself again. Patricia’s program is brilliant. Online with full of tools. Patricia is fully invested in you and your journey. I have enjoyed her program. I feel the best that I have been for a very long time. Mentally and physically. Her program is enjoyable and easy to follow. The program looks at the whole body and mind. Patricia is approachable and down to earth. I totally recommend her and her program! She is amazing!”

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“Absolutely I would recommend Patricia’s programs. Especially for people who struggle with self love/self worth issues. Although I have been working on these myself for a few years, since watching and interacting with Patricia, my confidence has improved immensely and I have learnt so much from her. She is such an inspiration! Patricia is absolutely amazing!! The knowledge I have gained from working with her is just incredible! Patricia is very knowledgeable and an absolutely beautiful soul to work with and interact with. She goes above and beyond to ensure I feel safe, comfortable and at ease. She is someone who I will always remember as having such a huge positive impact on my life and playing a huge part in my healing and self love journey!! I am absolutely honoured to have met Patricia!

Kayla

“Patricia is very motivating and clearly passionate about what she is doing. She knows what she is talking about. Her own story is very inspirational, especially as a DV survivor, Trisha is inspiring and empowering other women on her journey! I feel more confident in myself now!”

Angela

“Patricia’s overall approach is very professional and she is incredibly knowledgeable and dedicated to support you on your journey. She has helped me achieve my goals like no other! I feel more confident in myself, mentally and physically. Her own journey is extremely inspirational. Highly recommended Patricia.”

Dimi

“Patricia is very motivating and so comfortable. I can ask her any questions. I enjoyed her program. I definitely recommend Patricia. Very supportive. I feel more confident now. She has changed my life for the better. She can help you too, especially when you want to change your life after DV!”

Donna
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