Empowered Pleasure Toy Play

From Curious to Confident with Pleasure Toys and Tools

Do you feel

  • Unsure which toys are best for you and your desires?

  • Curious, but a little shy or overwhelmed by all the options?

  • Concerned about safety, hygiene, or using toys “the right way”?

  • Wanting more pleasure and play, but not sure how to begin?

  • Eager to explore with a partner but lacking language or confidence?

First of all, I want you to know that you are not alone in this. I remember the first time I walked into an adult toy store. I was excited, but also nervous and overwhelmed by the tools available. There are so many different kinds of pleasure toys and tools, new ones invented and released as we speak. There is also a lot of misinformation around. I have made many mistakes on my pleasure toy journey, so you don’t have to. From a melting rabbit vibrator, to using the wrong lube to playing with tools the wrong way.. Let me be your guide to playing confidently with pleasure toys and tools, so you can enjoy yourself fully! After all, I have been called the Multi-award-Winning Pleasure Toy Queen for a reason!

Welcome to the Empowered Pleasure Play

Pleasure Play is your ultimate guide to exploring pleasure toys & tools with confidence, clarity, and excitement—whether you’re solo, partnered, kinky, or just curious.

Inside the Course, You’ll get access to Masterclasses, Video tutorials, Guides and more on:

  • Pleasure Toy Basics Understand types, materials, safety, cleaning, storage, travel, and choosing the right toy for you.

  • The Ultimate Toy Guide Vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, prostate massagers, penis rings, pleasure pumps, air-pulsation toys – all explained in juicy detail.

  • Kinky & BDSM Tools From clamps and cuffs to strap-ons, chastity, sensory tools and electroplay—step into the world of kinky exploration with confidence.

  • Lube 101 Discover why lube is a must, which ones are body and toy safe, and how to elevate every experience with the right glide.

  • Pleasure Toy Play Techniques Explore how to use toys for orgasms, anal pleasure, squirting, prostate play, pumping, edging, and more.

  • Pleasure Experts Get bonus wisdom from special guests on toy play and pleasure expansion.

  • Pleasure Journal Prompts Reflect on your desires, track your discoveries, and build confidence through guided journaling.

  • Lifetime Access Go at your own pace, revisit lessons anytime, and keep growing your pleasure toolkit.

  • Access to the Private Pleasurelit Community

How You will Feel After the Course…
  • Confident in choosing and using toys that truly work for you

  • Knowledgeable about body-safer materials, toy types, and how to care for them

  • Turned on and empowered to explore solo or with a lover

  • Fully equipped with pleasure-enhancing tools, techniques, and toy wisdom

  • Excited to play more, shame less, and live fully Pleasurelit

This course is for
  • Pleasure Beginners looking for a solid, safe, shame-free foundation

  • Curious Explorers ready to level up their toy play knowledge and skill

  • Couples who want to enhance intimacy and add excitement to their play

  • Pleasure Enthusiasts who want expert techniques and tools to go deeper

This is a Pleasure Revolution.

Join Empowered Pleasure Play and move from shy to shameless, hesitant to hell yes, and curious to completely confident.

You deserve toys that turn you on and a life that lights you up.

Are You Ready to Play?

Terms and conditions apply, for 18+ adult legal age only. Got questions? Email pleasurelitmail@gmail.com

(Previously known as The Pleasure & Toy School)

Meet your Pleasurelit Educator

I’m Patricia—your Pleasurelit EdMuse (Educator Muse)

Through The Pleasurelit Way, I guide you to embody unapologetic confidence, deep self-love and magnetic pleasure - so you feel deliciously turned on to life, yourself, and every pleasure in between.

Having lived through domestic violence, abuse, low self-esteem, and a disconnected life, I transformed by exploring 350+ pleasure tools, countless somatic practices, and over 20 certifications (in Health, Sexuality, Tantra, Kink, Fitness, Yoga, Education and Business)—creating The Pleasurelit Way as a path that blends real-life experience with multi-award-winning education.

You will find The Pleasurelit Way within my bestselling book, immersive online programs, real life pleasure experiences, the Pleasurelit Insider, and more - accessible for anyone curious to explore the full depth of their pleasure potential.

You were never meant to dim your light. You are meant to be and live Pleasurelit—unapologetically.

PLeasurelit Patricia with her book The Pleasurelit Way
PLeasurelit Patricia with her book The Pleasurelit Way

My successfully completed qualifications additionally to real hands-on experiences, exploration, self-study and self-development:

  • Bank Assistance Manager

  • Enrolled & Registered Nurse

  • Business Management

  • Work, Health, Safety & Return to Work

  • Quality & Control Management and Infection prevention & control Leader

  • Personal Trainer & Fitness Master Trainer

  • Nutrition Coach

  • Educational Trainer & Assessor

  • Recognise & respond appropriately to DV

  • Reiki Master

  • Sensual Dance Teacher

  • Yoga Teacher (350hr)

  • Meditation Teacher

  • Breathwork Trainer

  • Trauma informed Coach

  • Tantra Practitioner & Sacred Sexuality Coach

  • Somatic Sex Coach

  • Kink, BDSM & Professional Dominatrix

Pleasure Members Feedback

Check out what other pleasure beings have said.

“I joined Patricia’s Program because I didn’t like myself. I wanted to like myself again. Patricia’s program is brilliant. Online with full of tools. Patricia is fully invested in you and your journey. I have enjoyed her program. I feel the best that I have been for a very long time. Mentally and physically. Her program is enjoyable and easy to follow. The program looks at the whole body and mind. Patricia is approachable and down to earth. I totally recommend her and her program! She is amazing!”

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“Absolutely I would recommend Patricia’s programs. Especially for people who struggle with self love/self worth issues. Although I have been working on these myself for a few years, since watching and interacting with Patricia, my confidence has improved immensely and I have learnt so much from her. She is such an inspiration! Patricia is absolutely amazing!! The knowledge I have gained from working with her is just incredible! Patricia is very knowledgeable and an absolutely beautiful soul to work with and interact with. She goes above and beyond to ensure I feel safe, comfortable and at ease. She is someone who I will always remember as having such a huge positive impact on my life and playing a huge part in my healing and self love journey!! I am absolutely honoured to have met Patricia!

Kayla

“Patricia is very motivating and clearly passionate about what she is doing. She knows what she is talking about. Her own story is very inspirational, especially as a DV survivor, Trisha is inspiring and empowering other women on her journey! I feel more confident in myself now!”

Angela

“Patricia’s overall approach is very professional and she is incredibly knowledgeable and dedicated to support you on your journey. She has helped me achieve my goals like no other! I feel more confident in myself, mentally and physically. Her own journey is extremely inspirational. Highly recommended Patricia.”

Dimi

“Patricia is very motivating and so comfortable. I can ask her any questions. I enjoyed her program. I definitely recommend Patricia. Very supportive. I feel more confident now. She has changed my life for the better. She can help you too, especially when you want to change your life after DV!”

Donna
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